Men who like to buy gifts for their loved ones are rarely found. Those who are lucky enough to have had a loved one for a long time, more often than not, are disappointed with worthless gifts on many occasions. These men also become over-anxious when it comes time to give gifts. That same worry becomes tenfold when the guy is in a new relationship because he definitely doesn’t have room to screw with royalty and still be able to keep his girl around.
When it comes to gift giving, don’t we believe that the idea is what matters? Of course, you’re planning on buying a meaningless gift that’s flimsy, cheap, or has absolutely nothing to do with it! Don’t be a thoughtless tease. However, if you are one of those guys who will spend their paycheck trying to impress a girl with your gift-giving skills, you will sound like a financially irresponsible person and women will not find that attractive either. So, yes, there are a lot of landmines you can avoid.
We have some good news for you! We can help make this grueling gift-buying process more fun, less scary, less bulky, and lighter on the pocket, too. Regardless of the price, if you choose something that relates to your relationship and matches her personality, passion, or beliefs, she’ll feel that you listen to her and care about the relationship. Here are some gifting ideas that can show her that you like her.
These gifts represent important moments in a relationship. When thinking of a gift, think about the things you did together that made those sparks fly. Give her something to recreate the same moment with her. Spend 24 hours together? Buy some of her favorite color bedsheets. It makes for a wonderful gift because you can even plan a romantic “date night” and re-stream those romantic moments!
If the coffee shop is where you first met them, because of the dark lovely curtains you had a candlelight dinner together during the day. Then, another great idea is to gift designer curtains from the RD Trend home decor items store. Make some brew with him and tell him how it reminds you of your special first date at the coffee shop. This “oh-so-motivating” gesture will melt his heart and you’ll be super caffeinated!
Future Event Gift
There’s a fine line between knowing you have a future and diligently planning it with your woman. This balance should be maintained in the new relationship. If you start talking about your future with your new loved one, it could scare her. However, if you don’t discuss or plan anything after the weekend, he may feel like it doesn’t have long-distance potential. It’s impossible to see the fine line, but a good gift can walk that line.
Get her a “gift card” at an online store that interests her – a home decor store, a Book My Show, Zomato, etc. These ‘future event gifts’ say that whatever you plan, they are a part of them. For a teaser, you can pair it with gifts that lead up to those events. For example, a premium cotton bedsheet, a printed cushion cover with a photo of the two of you, or a pair of designer curtains.
In a new relationship, it’s natural for you to think about her every minute. You start missing every little thing about her. You’ll find yourself smiling at the weirdest things – something funny she said, the way her eyes look when she smiles. She doesn’t know it yet, but she’ll absolutely love it if you give a few pointers. Start collecting things that make you think about her, because little things like this mean a lot. Put them in a basket and voila, you’ve just created a beautiful and unique gift that she will cherish!
Just think about how her comforter smells, or the color of her bedsheets. Winter flannel bedsheets work well, so elastic-fitted woolen bedsheets are even better. Basically, a pair of cushion covers printed with a picture of the two of you are a great choice because they simply mean “you’re super sweet“. Be sure to explain why it makes you think about him, otherwise, you may seem like a creep!
Crossing Of Her List Of Gifts
Think of all those first conversations where you spent hours sharing details about your past, your present, and even your dreams. She must have mentioned something she always wanted to do. Take advantage of that opportunity and make that dream come true for him. Maybe she’s always wanted to try a new sport; Enroll him for that. Maybe she’s always wanted to do decoration work – start planning to get her. If she ever mentions things like traveling, learning a new language, or photography, offer to do it with her. Doing a fun activity together is always an interesting idea and she will definitely love it.
I Know The Real You Gifts
There are some universal gifts that almost every woman appreciates—like a bunch of flowers and chocolates. But when you put your hands on something that shows that you know her not as a woman, but as a person, she’ll appreciate the fact that you care about her. In such situations, think about the things she likes or particularly likes. If she loves to write, a pretty fabulous printed curtain with a personalized note would make a perfect “I-Know-the-Real-You” gift!
So, she loves animals? How to ask if she wants to adopt a dog or cat? This will let her know that you fully understand what she feels inside. Gifts can be as simple as a printed bedsheet with her favorite movie character or a quote. Whatever the gift, an “I-know-the-real-you” gift should make your loved one feel extra special and appreciated!